Stephen Campbell
Sep 27, 2019
7/10
Palpably tense and thematically complex, this is deeply uncomfortable viewing, with a graphic but wholly justified rape scene
Women quickly learn that rape is a crime only in theory; in practice the standard for what constitutes rape is set not at the level of women's experience of violation but just above the level of coercion acceptable to men.
- Judith Lewis Herman; Trauma and Recovery: the aftermath of violence - from domestic abuse to political terror (1992)
The relationship is certainly abusive but I mean that's a greyscale. It's not like 'here's a healthy relationship' and 'here's an abusive one'. It's not a healthy relationship, it's a relationship founded on an uneven power balance and that can never be good. He has too many things that she needs, not just material things but the allure of power and he's got a family. To me, it's very much about her needing that family and needing that togetherness. They're a lot of fun and silly and stupid and fun which is what people need, so that was a very important aspect of it to me. It's not Michael she's going for, it's the whole package. In my mind she's a very lonely girl, so if she left there'd really be nowhere for her to go and I don't think most people are capable of taking that decision of going from something to nothing. I think people will go a long way to stay accepted within a group. I mean, we are social animals. We will do whatever it takes to be loved by the group not just the leader.
- Isabella Eklöf; "Isabella Eklöf talks about her film, Holiday" (Addy Fong); Something You Said (June 12, 2018)