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The Farewell

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7.4/10 • 1.4K

2019-07-121h 40m

ComedyDrama

Based on an actual lie.

A headstrong Chinese-American woman returns to China when her beloved grandmother is given a terminal diagnosis. Billi struggles with her family's decision to keep grandma in the dark about her own illness as they all stage an impromptu wedding to see grandma one last time.

Directors
Lulu Wang
Writters
Lulu Wang
Editors
Lulu Wang, Michael Taylor

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  1. Zhao Shuzhen

    Zhao Shuzhen

    Nai Nai

  2. Awkwafina

    Awkwafina

    Billi

  3. X Mayo

    X Mayo

    Suze

  4. Hong Lu

    Hong Lu

    Little Nai Nai

  5. Hong Lin

    Hong Lin

    Doctor Wu

  6. Tzi Ma

    Tzi Ma

    Haiyan

  7. Diana Lin

    Diana Lin

    Lu Jian

  8. Yang Xuejian

    Yang Xuejian

    Mr. Li

  9. Becca Khalil

    Becca Khalil

    Shirley

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Sheldon Nylander

Nov 13, 2019

8/10

When a Chinese family finds out that the family’s matriarch is dying of lung cancer, complications arise. In Chinese culture, there is a saying that when you get cancer, you die. This actually boils down to the belief that it’s not the cancer that leads to the person’s death, but rather the fear of dying. As such, the family orchestrates an elaborate ruse to get everyone together for a wedding, but in reality the gathering is for everyone to be able to say goodbye to the grandmother without actually letting her know the truth. It’s a fascinating premise and based on a true story (or based on an actual lie, as the film puts it). Showing aspects of Chinese culture we rarely get to see, the film takes us on a journey to China as we see modern life and urban development. How accurate it really is, I can’t attest to, and there are times that it feels like there should be more or that something is more complex and we’re being given the fortune cookie version, so to speak. The film does steer clear of politics, so that is not a factor here. This is a beautiful film not just through visual aesthetics but also on a character level. We see how each character faces the impending death of the grandmother differently, such as the daughter-in-law being very matter of fact about it while her husband (the grandmother’s son) is being torn up inside, all while the wise and experienced grandmother continues to dispense advice, oblivious to her diagnosis. It details the variety of relationships we can develop in our life as no two relationships are the same, but they all still love each other despite some distance between certain relatives. There’s something that, despite the comedic premise (it’s sort of a comedy that’s not particularly funny), is very grounded and very real. I couldn’t help but see some of my own relationships reflected on the screen. Beautiful, heartbreaking, and at the same time somewhat hopeful, “The Farewell” comes highly recommended.

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Status
Released
Original Language
English
Budget
$250,300.00
Revenue
$23,076,657.00
Keywords
grandparent grandchild relationshipfamily relationshipsweddingeast asian leadfamily reuniongrandmotherchinese americanfamily gatheringethical dilemmawoman directorlung cancerdeadly diseaserelationshipspersonal relationshipsgrandmother granddaughter relationshipasian american